Praise is like sunlight to the human spirit; we cannot flower and grow without it.
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Find Ways to Offer Praise
I have a German shepherd puppy, and my quest since she’s arrived in our home has been to train her so that she grows up to be a respectful and calm dog. Currently, she is exceptionally cute, as puppies are. Given my decades as an educator, I know that cute wears off. When it does, the hope is a well-mannered dog remains.
Since I’m an educator and not a dog trainer, I googled how to train a dog. It turns out that there are many philosophies when it comes to dog training. To anyone who knows me, it is not a surprise that I’m drawn to the belief in positive reinforcement.
The idea is that rather than reprimanding poor behavior, you find ways to offer praise. For example, when she’s biting my feet, instead of saying “No!” I say, “Look!” When she looks up at me, I praise her and give her a treat.
When she swipes Jordan’s wrestling shoe from his sports bag, instead of yelling “No!” I say, “Look!” When she looks up at me, I praise her, give her a treat and take the shoe.
When she barks incessantly, instead of shouting “No!” I say, “Look!” When she looks up at me, I praise her and give her a treat.
This line of training has been frustrating to the kids. They reason that she needs to get in trouble for doing the wrong thing so she can learn. I believe she just needs to learn to do the right thing and there won’t be many problems.
“It’s really not all that different from how Mom treats us,” Sam said.
“What do you mean?” Jordan said.
“She’s always telling us the good stuff we do. It makes you want to do more good stuff. But, sometimes it makes me mad because I think you should get in trouble.”
My husband, Andy, chuckled from the brutal honesty of the statement from one brother to another.
“Yeah,” Jordan said, “I think you should get in trouble a lot more than you do.”
It’s human nature to want justice. I’m just not convinced that policing poor behavior will ever have a positive impact on an environment. I believe people (and my cute puppy) want to do the right thing.
There are times when the puppy needs a little more redirection. In those moments, she gets a time-out. Some days she has many time-outs. Many days she has none. The same is true with humans. Some days we need more redirection and a little time out…or a lot of time out. Many days we truck along just fine.
As the new year brings challenges, may we remember to focus on the positive behaviors we see in others. Offer a bit of praise, perhaps give a treat…and maybe, even, find a puppy to play with.
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